The Marriage Apocalypse Warrior Tribe exists so that we can have:
more love
more laughter
more joy
less disaster
Together we fight against the behaviors that predict divorce and we do it by having the most fun possible.
Each month we pick a Gottman tool to focus on together, and we also focus on celebrating our wins.
The community is also inspired by what you want and need, so please speak up!
Content and community is held inside of our private Facebook group. Note that if you have not taken a Gottman class with me yet, there will be a one-time additional $50 fee upon joining the group to cover the cost of materials.
I do not offer refunds on this group. Thank you for understanding.
In addition to the Facebook group, when you register for the Marriage Apocalypse Warrior Tribe, you have the option to text SUBSCRIBE to [text number] to sign up for a 7 week fondness and admiration course/exercise by text. For each day there is a positive statement, or thought, followed by a task. Think about each statement, and say it to yourself many times throughout the day while you and your spouse are apart. In some cases, the thought may not seem to apply to your marriage, especially if your fondness dn admiration have dimmed. Keep in mind that the statement does not have to describe the typical state of affairs between you at the present time. If you can think of a single instant or episode where the statement applied, focus on that memory. For example, if you’re not feeling overly attracted to your spouse these days, focus on one area of his or her anatomy that does appeal to you. Also be sure to complete the simple task that follows each positive statement. Do the exercise every day, no matter how you happen to feel about your relationship or your spouse. Don’t stop even if you just had a major blowup or are feeling very distant from each other.
Your goal is to rehearse a positive way to think about your partner and your relationship. The more you do it, the more the words (and more important, the thoughts) will become second nature.
By texting SUBSCRIBE, you agree to receive messages 5 times a week for 7 weeks via an autodialer. This agreement isn’t a condition of any purchase. You can be part of the Tribe without doing the fondness and admiration exercise. You will receive one message a day for 5 days a weeks for 7 weeks. Reply STOP to end or HELP for help. Msg&Data rates may apply.
Credit: This exercise comes from the Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by Drs. John and Julie Gottman. This book is part of the materials you will receive when you register for the Tribe.
